Certificate in Psychosexual Therapy

Aim of the course

The course is designed for therapists to begin this training without any prior experience of working with psychosexual topics. However, those practitioners who already work with couples or relationship issues may find this a useful additional layer of learning, by adding further dimensions to this work.

This training is offered as a CPD programme (Continuous Professional Development). It is designed to give participants a CPD certificate as evidence of having taken additional specialised training in psychosexual therapy for couples and other types of relationship – to equip therapists with relevant knowledge and models when addressing sex in their therapy work.

Course content:

The organisational context
Introduction to Psychosexual Therapy – an educational, behavioural and psychotherapeutic model. Expectations, for therapists and clients. Counter-transference.
Common Psychosexual issues and treatment approaches – Distinction between organic and inorganic, universal and situational issues.
Sexual Anatomy – including potential for expanded pleasure by understanding the full extent of the clitoris, and the position of the prostate gland. Brief introduction to gender-confirming surgery. Bodily self-knowledge and self-acceptance
Arousal and Desire – Spontaneous and responsive desire. Brakes and accelerators. Differentiation. Considering sex as a buffet not a 3-course meal.
Working with Shame – Influences from family, culture, early experiences. Transference.
Sex after sexual trauma – Self-regulation and co-regulation. Accepting self as a sexual being. Listening to the body.
Communication – Working with couples and other relationships, also with a client’s internal parts. Facilitating dialogue. Conflict.
Creating a model for psychosexual health – Review of theory and psychosexual interventions

This course has a biopsychosocial underpinning – whereby the body’s physiology and the client’s psychological process are considered within the sociological context.

This course has a sex-positive philosophy, in which sex has a valid place within therapeutic work.

Assessment:

The CPD certificate will be issued upon satisfactory attendance on all 8 days of the course. If any days are missed, this will be reflected on the CPD certificate. Learning is absorbed by attendance and participation on the course. There is no other formal assessment. Additional reading is encouraged to broaden learning gained from the course.

We also recommend that anyone undertaking sex therapy seeks supervision from a suitably-qualified professional, to support this important area of work.

Faculty:

Cabby Laffy

Cabby Laffy has been a facilitator of training and workshops since 1991. She has also worked as a psychotherapist with individuals and couples, and a supervisor for individual and couple work, for over twenty-five years. She is a UKCP registered and NCP accredited psychotherapist, a COSRT accredited psychosexual therapist and supervisor, an educator and group facilitator, and a member of PCSR and PCU. Cabby’s book LoveSex: An Integrative Model for Sexual Education (Karnac 2013) presents a model for psychosexual health. Cabby is available for one to one and couple therapy, training, and supervision. www.psychosexualhealth.org.uk

Cabby has created a Homeodynamic Model for Psychosexual Health, which offers an integrative understanding of human relationships and sexuality encompassing the physical, emotional, spiritual, and our social and cultural environment. This approach includes research from neuroscience, complementary and alternative health therapies and cognitive behavioural therapy, and draws from eastern sexual healing practices as well western approaches to psychosexual therapy. The Homeodynamic Model is taught at Cabby’s Centre for Psychosexual Health (CPH) – www.psychosexualhealth.org.uk – primarily through a two year Diploma in Integrative Psychosexual Therapy. She is an experienced practitioner in her client work and training roles, with a speciality in psychosexual therapy.

Cabby and her daughter, Shana Laffy, have established Heartful Therapy to provide training courses and therapy with the aim of providing high quality and experiential training in relationship and couple therapy and using the arts as a therapeutic tool. Heartful Therapy Training offers a variety of courses, some 1-day CPD events, as well as this certificate course run in association with The Grove. www.heartfultherapy.co.uk

Polly McAfee

Polly McAfee is a partner at the Centre for Psychosexual Health. She is an integrative humanistic counsellor, a graduate of CPH and holds an M.A. in Effective Learning. She has completed additional training with the Institute of Group Analysis, Pink Therapy, the Gestalt Centre, Barbara Carellas, Layla Martin and Spectrum Therapy. She is a member of BACP and COSRT. As well as her counselling work and teaching for CPH, she runs groups for women exploring sex and sexuality.

Together, Cabby and Polly have successfully run a 2-year Diploma in Integrative Psychosexual Therapy, a course accredited by COSRT (College for Sex & Relationship Therapy). So their credentials and knowledge base in this area are very well established.

Please note that the tutor team may vary according to feasibility in relation to the number of enrolled students. The Grove fully intends for the course to be taught as planned. However, sometimes tutor availability may change according to unforeseen circumstances such as but not limited to illness or bereavement. In any such circumstances, The Grove may be required to adjust the tutor schedule at short notice.

Spring 2022 intake:

This intake is now enrolling.

This intake will take place on Zoom.

Friday and Saturday dates in 2022:

11 & 12 March
8 & 9 April
6 & 7 May
10 & 11 June

Times each day:
10am – 4:30pm

Autumn 2022 intake:

This intake is now enrolling.
We hope that this intake will take place in person, with Zoom as a backup plan.

Friday and Saturday dates in 2022:

16 & 17 September
14 & 15 October
18 & 19 November
16 & 17 December

Times each day:
10am – 4:30pm.

Fees:

£1,900 + VAT = £2,280 payable in full or by instalments. A non-refundable deposit of £300 is payable to secure a place on this course. After that, the total remaining payable must be reached by 6 weeks before the final weekend of the training.

The course fee includes all training materials and the CPD certificate.

When training is held at a venue (rather than by Zoom): tea, coffee and biscuits are provided during the course. Lunch is not included in the course fee. There are many shops and cafes nearby offering refreshments and lunches.

After paying the deposit of £300 including VAT, the remainder of the fee can be paid by instalments as indicated on the invoice. Some reduced-fee places may be awarded depending on student circumstances, subject to availability. The course fee can also be invoiced fully or partially to an employer or funding organisation. Please contact us for details.

Application criteria

Applicants are expected to be qualified and expereience professionals in a helping profession, who are secure in their mode of practice. This will be covered in the application form. All applicants are expected to:

be qualified and experienced in their field
be full members of their professional body (such as but not limited to BACP, UKCP, BPS, AHPP, NCP, NCS, ACC)
hold professional liability insurance
have supervision arrangements in place for their client work as well as access to support for any clinical or organisation practice they undertake during the course

Professional standards

The Grove Practice is accredited by NCP (National Council for Psychotherapists) as a CPD training centre. As such, all The Grove’s courses are awarded NCP accreditation for CPD (Continuous Professional Development).

This accreditation provides reassurance regarding high standards of teaching and course content.

The Grove’s courses have been successfully recognised as CPD for members of the following membership bodies: BACP, UKCP, COSRT, NCP, NCS, AHPP, BPS, among others. Organisations such as Relate and MIND and Place2B have also supported their therapists in taking training with The Grove. This is a mark of unofficial validation of our courses as worthy of being listed on the CPD logs for these members.